My daughter, Justine lived large. She did things her way and when she did something she did it in a huge way. There was nothing mediocre to the way she lived her life. She had strong convictions and she stuck by them. She always learned lessons the hard way. She was an individual and she didn’t care what others thought of her.
Justine cared deeply about the homeless, abused women and the mentally ill. She did one high school Co-op placement in a drop in centre for people who live on the street and another in a shelter for abused women. She completed her 40 hours of community service in a soup kitchen where she served food and conversed with the people who ate dinner there. She didn’t just talk about problems, she took action.
She loved her family and friends and was very loyal. She lived by her own standards. As I write about her I’m often reminded of a woman from the Wild West. Annie Oakley or some woman dressed in cowboy clothes with guns comes to mind. She was a person who would not take crap from anyone but had a heart of gold.
“My mother…was perfectly horrified when I began shooting and tried to keep me in school, but I would run away and go quail shooting in the woods or trim my dresses with wreaths of wildflowers.”~Annie Oakley
As I am writing about Justine I am reminded of her strength of character. She was 29 years old when she was driving home after her night shift and was killed in a car accident a year ago. I want people to know about her amazing life. The book is entitled “Not My Story To Tell”.
Do you know anyone who reminds you of a Wild West hero or heroine?
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your daughter’s story. You wrote it beautifully.
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Reblogged this on Cathy Lynn Brooks and commented:
“My mother…was perfectly horrified when I began shooting and tried to keep me in school, but I would run away and go quail shooting in the woods or trim my dresses with wreaths of wildflowers.”~Annie Oakley
This is a quote I used in one of my blogs because it reminded me of my daughter, Justine. I’m entering it here. http://silverthreading.com/2015/08/19/writers-quote-wednesday-jane-yolen/
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Hi ,Cathy. It is nice to meet you! I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing a quote that means so much to you and the memory of your daughter. ❤
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Cathy, You’ve done such a wonderful job sharing your daughter with us. I look forward to reading your posts.
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So sorry to hear about your loss, I have two daughters myself, with such differing characters. I love how you celebrate and share with us her feisty character on your blog, in such fond remembrance of her, it is very touching. I am sure she was a very special person, dear to your heart.
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My 2 daughters could not have been more different. Justine was feisty (good word describing her) while my other daughter, Candice is very laid back. Thanks for your support.
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Love reading your blog ! Justine was taken away too soon and I am glad to get to know her better thru your posts. I unfortunately didn’t get to see her nearly enough. Feisty is a good word to describe her lol. It made me smile . Keep writing Cathy! It’s very good
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Feisty is a good way to describe her. I will have to add that in my Forward. I don’t think I put that word in the book.
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